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Judith Proctor ([personal profile] watervole) wrote2014-05-03 08:25 am

Oswin

 Sorry I'm posting so little at present.  I seem to be drowning under a combination of book shop (long commute and a lot of hard work), folk festival, (which will at least be over in six weeks) and occasional granny stuff.

The plus point of being a granny is that I seem to have acquired the super-power of 'stop baby from crying'.  I get the occasional text/phone call of 'help, she's been crying for three hours', go along, pick her up, pop her in the baby sling, start walking and she drops off to sleep immediately.

What I want to know, is why didn't this super-power work when I was a parent?

I suspect it mostly comes from being fresh to the case and not frazzled from lack of sleep and not having back ache from already carrying her around for several hours.

Whatever the reason, it's good to be able to help Oswin's parents and it's handy that I live close enough to be able to get there easily.

Meanwhile, for those who wanted the latest pic - here's a short video of Oswin feeding.  She wasn't strong enough to suck from the breast when she was born, but Carrie has been expressing breast milk, so a lot of what Oswin is drinking is breast milk even though it's in a bottle.


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[personal profile] pensnest 2014-05-03 09:06 am (UTC)(link)
I don't have grandparent experience, but I suspect that you are more relaxed than Oswin's mum, being out of the stress zone until you volunteer for duty.

Baby slings are *excellent* things.

[identity profile] happytune.livejournal.com 2014-05-03 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Amazing! Does Oswin's mum know about the La Leche League? Her local chapter might be a great support. And yay for babywearing! I know there's a sling library in Poole or Bournemouth so she can try different carriers as baby gets older. Several of my friends with preemies have been very positive about it. So happy she seems to be doing so well.
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[identity profile] watervole.livejournal.com 2014-05-04 09:11 am (UTC)(link)
they're happy to carry on with the current method. They've bought a machine to help expressing milk. With the bottle, both mums can feed the baby.

I may look up the sling library. Thanks.

[identity profile] vjezkova.livejournal.com 2014-05-03 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Oooh, little kitten, she is so eager to have the milk ALL and NOW! It is great Carrie can provide her milk, the best gift for Oswin.
And you are another gift for the family.

[identity profile] decemberleaf.livejournal.com 2014-05-04 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks so much for your notes and this lovely video! They both bring back wonderful memories--especially of the eagerness of Oswin's sucking on the bottle. My granddaughter, also born a month early, turned 14 three days ago, and Oswin's eagerness for Carrie's expressed breast milk mixed with formula is such a hark back to those days fourteen years ago for my family.

One great thing, about having a bottle about at all, is that it's fun to feed a baby, and this way the fun can be shared with family and friends. But I'm glad to know there may be the possibility of support from the La Leche League (great institution); also that a baby sling is in use. I can't imagine caring for a newborn child or grandchild without one. And, later, for a simple "baby back pack" with a kick-stand built in so that a parent or grandparent or friend can wriggle the baby into it and easily pop into it themself and go off into the world with the baby able to peer over grown-up's shoulder and feel the motion of the walking and see the world from this wonderful perch.

I love your nearness to the family and super-power and your keen awareness that "it mostly comes from being fresh to the case and not frazzled from lack of sleep and not having back ache from already carrying her around for several hours." Yes!! Every new mother should be so fortunate to have such a gift for the family.